Friday, September 23, 2011

How Rude!

Sometimes I wonder why guys can be so degrading. They look at girls like they're a piece of meat. I found out that guys are very fond of yoga pants. How I found this out is that I am a strong believer in yoga pants so therefore I wear them often. When you get texts in the middle of the day saying, "HOLY YOGA PANTS!" that's when you know that guys are staring at your ass. No, I do not wear them just so I can have some creepy as little boy stare at my butt in the hallways. Sure it can be flattering at times coming from the right person but when it's someone that you have never spoken to before in your life that points it out, then it's kinda weird. Just the other day I was hanging out with a boy and we were laying down watching a movie and he kept grabbing my ass. I didn't want to be rude but I do have some respect for myself so I turned around and shook my head in disappointment. I just personally feel like that is so disrespectful and it makes me kind of feel self concious. Like what if it's not toned enough for him or what if it's not round enough. Anyways it doesn't really matter. I don't really understand the fascination with girls asses. If you actually see a bare butt I personally think it's not attractive at all. If I had a nickel for everytime I caught a guy staring at mine or my friend's ass I would be a billionaire. I guess it's really not that big of a deal but sometimes it just gets kinda creepy and disrespectful. I don't want to be known for my back side. I want to be known as a nice girl with a good personality. Is that so much to ask? I'm not saying that toned butt isn't important because I definitely think it is. I wear my mom's tone ups when I go running and walking sometimes because I want it to be more toned but it's just that I think boys base their opinions about girls too much on how hot they think their body is or how easy they think she is. Good for you if you have a girlfriend with a nice ass but good luck trying to have an intellectual conversation with her when all you're constantly thinking about is seeing her naked. I'm sure it'll be fun for a couple months but after that you'll get bored and move on to some other "fine piece of ass."

1 comment:

  1. Guys really say "Holy Yoga Pants!"?? Haha, guys are pathetic, I gotta say. I like that you've pointed out that girls don't wear this stuff for boys; they wear it because it's comfortable. But I like that you've given us some personal moments here so that the awekwardness and disgust you feel is more real. It becomes interesting, then, when you say it doesn't really matter but continue to tell us why it does. It's almost as if we're seeing this war with yourself--you don't want to push guys away but at the same time you want them around if they can look at you differently.

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